Tuesday, December 31, 2019

Decisions? Mistakes?

Every meaningful decision you make has risk. Each one benefits you, whether emotionally, spiritually, or educationally. No regrets! Photo by Suna
This post originally appeared on the Hermit Haus Redevelopment website on 2019-12-25.
Author and publisher Michael Hyatt—who apparently has nothing to do with hotels—thought enough of a quote from Catherine Cook to put it on page 99 of his Full Focus Planner, which I have been using for a full quarter now. (It is just the best!) That quote is, “If you’re not making mistakes, then you’re not making decisions.”
While I kind of agree with the sentiment of Cook’s statement, I have a couple of issues with it, including a superfluous “then.”
At the risk of making a semantic argument, you can and do make decisions every day without the risk of making mistakes. Should I wear the dark blue shirt or the black one? Which sides do I want with lunch? Coke or Pepsi? Maybe iced tea.
For most of us, there are no wrong answers to these questions—setting aside the Coke employee whose job was jeopardized when his wife brought him a Pepsi with lunch because she didn’t realize that’s what the fast food place served. Only someone with a very fixed, authoritarian mindset—like a fashionista or a marketing executive—would consider any answer to these questions wrong.
What I like to think Ms. Cook and Mr. Hyatt meant is: you’re either not taking risks or you’re not making important decisions—probably the former. After all, rewards are usual corollary to the risk. Higher credit risks pay higher interest rates. Federally insured savings accounts (usually considered low risk) pay almost nothing.
On the other hand, you don’t want to take unwarranted risks. You’ve heard me and thousands of other investors say we take only about 1% (sorry, Bernie) of the deals that come our way, but we compete very hard for the deals we accept. I try not to take risks that outweigh the potential rewards even though you really can only how big the risk was in hind sight.
The takeaway is this: Weigh your options. Judge the risks against the potential rewards. Make your decision, and only look back to see what you could do better the next time. Ever decision you make—no matter how it turns out—contributes to the person you become. And remember, batters can get into the Hall of Fame hitting only 30% of their times at bat.

Sunday, December 29, 2019

Brody Brobro Brodybro

This is the inspiration for the children’s rhyme.
This poem started out with Brody and a “fearsome bug.”
When wrote this doggerel in 2018, I thought it might be a good “book” for a kids’ book. I don’t know an illustrator, though.
So, here it is:
Brody has a pretty face.
His name means, “from a muddy place.”
 
With all his friends, we have a pack,
Brody always has my back.
 
He takes really good care of me.
He tries to protect me from everything
 
Like snakes and sticks and fearsome bugs.
He knocks me down and gives me hugs.
 
When I am away, he misses me.
When I come back, he licks my face and kisses me.
 
He’s always having lots of fun.
He loves to run and run and run.
 
When he gets hot, he likes to swim.
He finds the pond and jumps right in.
 
He likes to go on long, long walks.
He tells me things. It’s like he talks.
 
He always tells me what he’s done.
“I chased the cows, and it was fun.”

Saturday, December 21, 2019

Annual Goals, 2020 Edition

A well crafted goal is Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Relevant, and Time-Bound.
This post originally appeared on the Hermit Haus Redevelopment website on 2016-07-00.
It’s been a while since I’ve talked about goal setting, but this is the time of year when we traditionally review what we’ve accomplished and figure out what we want to do next year. So, I thought it appropriate to review goal setting now. Especially since that’s what I’m doing.
Russell has also written on SMART goals, so I’m not going to rehash that topic. Instead, let’s talk about how we actually pick our annual goals.
1. What do you want to do?
My first step is to make a wish list of everything I want to accomplish in the next year—whether it is personal, financial, operational, or spiritual. This is a stream-of-consciousness exercise. I don’t focus on anything except identification of what I want to do. Grammar, spelling, logic, achievability, timing—everything else is irrelevant for this part of the process.
Here are a few of the many, many items from my wish list:
  • Flip some houses.
  • Make a horse pasture.
  • Renovate the old church as an event center.
  • Renovate the Gillis house for the Hearts, Homes, and Hands office.
  • Improve our cash flow.
  • Keep all of our businesses profitable.
  • Spend more time at the ranch.
  • Spend more time with family.
  • Help people.
2. Clarify and combine objectives.
You’ll notice these wish list items are not very specific, and some of them could be grouped together. So, that’s the next step: clarify and combine my goals. For example: “flip some houses,” improving cash flow, and the two renovation goals could be considered parts of the profitability goal. That goal now becomes, “Improve the profitability of the businesses by 10% year-over-year while maintaining a positive cash flow.”
The horse pasture can be combined with spending more time at the ranch and with family. That goal now becomes, “Spend more time with family by working with the horses at the ranch.” Building the horse pasture is an enabling goal for the annual goal. But “more time” is not very specific. Let’s make that “three Saturdays a month” to leave some time for activities other than horsing around.
Finally, everything in the list falls under “helping people.” So, I’m going to call that an underlaying motivation rather than a goal.
Sometimes one task or goal must be completed before another one can start. For example, we have to move the retention pond (big hole) in the foreground before we can put up the fence that needs to go through it. The silage and hay in the distance have to go elsewhere before the horses can be put in this pasture. The rocks can stay where they are.
3. Create a goal hierarchy.
The goal hierarchy helps you understand which of your goals need to be attained in which order and establish their relative importance to you. For example, we have to renovate the old church before we can use it as an event center, and we have to generate rental income from it to improve cash flow and profitability. Also, the businesses have to be making money to enable me to spend more time with my family.
  • Spend three Saturdays each month with family at the ranch.
    • Build a horse pasture by the end of the fourth quarter.
      • Fence the pasture by the end of the second quarter.
      • Build stalls by the end of the third quarter.
    • Move the hay.
    • Move the horses.
  • Improve the profitability of the business by 10% year-over-year while maintaining a positive cash flow.
    • Generate income from event center rentals by the end of the first quarter.
      • Begin renting the conference room by the end of January.
        • Renovate the conference room to a rentable standard by end of the first week in January.
      • Begin renting the Sanctuary for bigger meetings by the end of the first quarter.
        • Renovate the pulpit area by the end of February.
        • Complete ceiling demo downstairs by the end of the first week in January.
    • Reduce vacancies and leasing expenses by converting all rentals to two-year leases by the end of the year.
By doing this exercise, I reduced nine random wish-list items to two specific annual goals. You should never have more than three to five annual goals. The more goals you have, the less you can focus on achieving any of them. Focus is the key to success.
4. Remove any remaining ambiguity from the list.
You can have some ambiguity in your goal statements so long as you have clear definitions of what the terms mean. For example, “build a horse pasture” could mean a lot of things. But we have specific plans in place for:
  • Where the fence should go
  • What kinds of fence material should be used
  • Where in the fence gates need to be placed
  • Where the horse stalls will be located and how they will be made
  • How to get water to the stalls
  • How to light the stalls
  • Where and how to store feed.
All that’s left is to figure out where the money comes from.
I’ve recently started to use the Free to Focus planner. I find it a lot more intuitive and “focused” than the Covey system. It is one of the things that have me focused on goals right now.
5. Review the timeline to make sure the dates are attainable.
“Attainable” doesn’t mean “easy.” The timeline should cause a little stress. If it doesn’t, you’re probably not pushing yourself hard enough. In business terms, you’re leaving money on the table.
6. Set a schedule to review and revise your goals.
I review my annual goals at least once a week. The priorities shift as the year goes on, and you have to be flexible. For example, a project going seriously over budget can delay other projects and affect the attainment of goals. That doesn’t mean I rewrite my goals weekly, but keeping the goal line in view means I can understand and communicate how projects relate to and affect each other. (Actually, improving this communication is one of my goals for next year.)
I’ve recently started using the Free to Focus planner. That planner requires me to transfer (by hand) my goals from one quarterly planner to the next. That process also gives me an opportunity to clarify and reprioritize my goals. Writing the goals out by hand reinforces them in my mind in a way that typing them into an online planner does not.
In the end, the way you set and track your goals is as individual a process as what your goals actually are. This process works for me. I hope it helps you, too.

Thursday, December 12, 2019

Sarita Is Sold and Closed!

There are lots of ways to get free advertising. Doing a great job like Dana Wissink, the Realtor® who handled the transaction for us, is the most reliable way.
My mom always said, “Everything always works out for the best.” Even the flooded pasture I used for the background of this meme.
This post originally appeared on the Hermit Haus Redevelopment website on 2019-12-05 and on the Hearts, Homes, and Hands blog on 2019-12-04.
We have learned a lot from the Sarita project. It feels like almost everything that could have gone wrong did…but that’s not really how it was. We had one major pain in the ass, and that was the buyer’s lender. Even the buyer’s agent said she will never use that lender again. Here is a brief rundown of what we learned.
You never know where you’ll find a deal.
I never expected to find a good deal on a property in my own family, but my brother and his wife just wanted out from under a house they could no longer maintain.
People first.
We ended up making a little money outright for handling the sale and taking over the debt, but most of the profits are going into a fund to help take care of my brother and sister-in-law going forward. As I said, they would have been happy to let us take it all, but that’s not how we roll. They actually objected to taking a promissory note to cover their future care, but we insisted on taking care of them.
You need a local team.
Redevelopment is a team sport. You can’t do it all yourself. You need good contractors, which we didn’t have in the Brazosport area.
Since this house is well outside our area of operations, we decided on the prehab exit strategy. We cleaned up the house and maintained the laws to keep the HOA happy. But we did not go looking for contractors. Instead, we offered the house at a substantial discount to its after repair value (ARV).
We offered the listing to an old Realtor friend, but she had also moved out of the area. (I may have mentioned, I grew up there but left as soon as I could.) While we were trying to find a Realtor, we were approached by an investor who found the house while driving for dollars. We couldn’t find a place where the numbers worked for both of us, but we did list the house with her. She turned out to be a great person to work with, and I hope we can do stuff together in the future.
There is a new type of FHA loan.
FHA now offers a loan—the FHA 203(k) Rehab—for homeowners wanting to renovate, either to make the home more affordable or to participate in a homestead flip. I don’t believe the loan is available for investors since it is an FHA vehicle.
Because FHA allows for up to 100% financing, FHA lenders are notoriously hard to deal with. So, we usually don’t accept offers with FHA financing, but we were intrigued with helping someone obtain a family home for renovation, instead of just turning the project over to another investor.
It’s not closed until it’s closed.
We learned that this type of financing doesn’t make the FHA any easier to deal with. In fact, the lender arbitrarily delayed closing now fewer than five times. One of these times caused me to miss a trip to Hilton Head we had planned for more than a year. The next one, move closing out of that trip window and came the day after going on the trip became impossible for me to arrange.
They also refused to authorize closing until seconds before it was schedule for the penultimate time, knowing I had to travel four hours to close. We thanked them very much, and I drove down the next day anyway.
Okay. We’ve already talked about most of that, but it never hurts to go over lessons learned. And as of now, the deal is done. The money is in the bank. We have helped a homeowner get a (soon-to-be very) nice home. We have helped and can continue to help my brother’s family. And we have additional resources to start hiring staff to help others stay in their homes.

Tuesday, December 10, 2019

Up- or Down-: -Sizing, That Is

A Del Webb survey found a smaller percentage of people approaching retirement plan to downsize than previous surveys.
This post originally appeared on the Hermit Haus Redevelopment website on 2019-12-03
And Home
Sings me of sweet things
My life there has it's own wings
To fly over the mountains
Though I'm standing still

— Karla Bonoff

Will your retirement home be smaller or larger than your current home?

The last of my generation—technically (I’m a Baby Boomer, although I often feel closer to Generation X)—is approaching that magical time, retirement. It is a goal many of us have been planning and working a long time to achieve. Others of us never thought we would or planned to “work until I die.” I was in that last camp, so I found more work to do once I “retired.”
One constant throughout our lives, however, is the need for housing. Babies, teenagers, young adults, middle-agers, retirees, and elders all need a place to live. A traditional strategy of the nuclear family has been to downsize their homes at retirement, but a growing number of retirees are upsizing now instead. Del Webb of Sun City (which my naughty fingers always want to spell with two I’s) recently conducted a survey of people in their 50s and 60s who plan to move again sometime. Bucking recent trends, 43% said they plan to move into a house of similar size to their current one while 22% said they planned to upsize.
Before I go on, a couple of caveats. A single survey should never be used as a market indicator. I also suspect that Del Webb’s choice of a sample population may have significantly influenced their results. Del Webb markets to very affluent retirees. If their sample was exclusively from their target audience, it would be like using the population of Clute, Texas to predict the results of the next election cycle. There probably isn’t enough diversity to represent the general population.
That said, let’s look at some reasons why people might choose to up- or down-size.

Downsizing

A good view can be an important consideration in selecting a retirement home, regardless of up- or down-sizing. Photo by Suna
Using the equity in your existing home
For many people, the equity accumulated in their homes is their retirement plan. That’s why home equity loans used for anything other than home improvement is a bad debt. When people look to downsize in retirement, they often use their home equity to pay cash for a smaller home and the rest to maintain their lifestyle in retirement.
Maintenance
Smaller homes are cheaper and easier to maintain than bigger ones. The costs of everything from painting to flooring to a new roof are proportional to the number of square feet in the home. And there is simply less to sweep, dust, and mop, giving you more time to enjoy your retirement—unless you look forward to those chores. Then maybe you should upsize.

Upsizing

Moving to a less expensive area
If you’re moving from NYC to Florida, LA to Houston, or Austin to Cameron, you can buy more house for the same price in your new city. While tax laws don’t currently encourage or discourage this behavior, having the ability to buy a bigger house can be its own excuse.
Room for visitors
Many retirees hope their children and friends will spend time with them. Some even move to resort areas to encourage visits. If so, you’ll need a place to put those folks, and a bigger home can be just the ticket.
I wish everyone could be as independent and active as my dad. In this picture he is experimenting with a new grass varietal for his cattle. He is 88 and undergoing treatment for the cancer that would eventually claim him.
Parents
Many boomers and Gen-X’ers have parents to take care of. This move toward a more traditional extended family is awesome. My mom and dad lived in their own house until they died. They refused any offer of cohabitation until near the end. But not all of our parents have the means or the health to maintain their independence so long. I firmly believe we should help our elders stay at home or move in with us—whatever they choose.

Parents

Helping elders stay independent at home is why Sue Ann, Kathleen, and I co-founded Hearts, Homes, and Hands to provide non-medical personal assistance. Suna and I will eventually be clients as well as principals of that company. Our goal is to provide the services and care our clients want and to uphold the inherent worth and dignity of all our elders.

Thursday, December 05, 2019

Thankful Thursday

If you have any interest at all in instrumental classical music, this album needs to be in your rotation. Photo from Amazon
Warren Zevon recorded The Wind while in the process of dying. The music is understandably contemplative and melancholy, and still uplifting. Photo from Amazon
Thank you for the music, the songs I’m singing
Thanks for all the joy they’re bringing
Who can live without it, I ask in all honesty
What would life be?

— Benny Andersson, Björn Ulvaeus

I was really busy earlier this week, so instead of Grateful Monday, here is Thankful Thursday.
I was listening to a Hidden Brain podcast on how we change our beliefs Tuesday. In it a woman was on her way to an appointment where she would be diagnosed with ALS. She was listening to Warren Zevon’s “Keep Me in Your Heart,” which is from an album he recorded while dying. It got me thinking about how we build soundtracks for our lives.
Music is a universal language. Many of us like songs in languages we don’t speak. Sarah Chang’s performance of Chopin’s “Nocturne #20” proved (to me, anyway) that a performance doesn’t have to have words to bring us to tears. Then there’s the whole genre of rock, where you’re hard pressed to understand the words, even with a libretto.
Unfortunately, most of us are not open to new forms of musical expression after our mid-twenties.
Even so, I’m grateful for music.
  • For the opportunities it gave me to travel and grow and get over stage fright
  • For the learning opportunities of life on the road
  • For the ways it brings people together
  • For its ability to communicate complex ideas and build empathy or movements

Wednesday, December 04, 2019

Aging: Denial, Acceptance, and Heroism

Dad never did let that rockin’ chair get him. Here he is stretching fence at 90.
This post originally appeared on the Hearts, Homes, and Hands blog on 2019-11-27.
So buy him a drink and lend him an ear
He's nobody's fool and the only one here
Who remembers the smell of the black powder smoke
And the stand in the street at the turn of a joke

— Guy Clark

There is a perception that getting older means we are somehow less than we were when we were younger. The memories and stories of our elders get discounted as ramblings, the lessons they could teach lost to many younger listeners.
While we eventually reach the point where we need help, a long life is an accomplishment, something to be proud of. Perhaps that’s why people go to great lengths to deny their true age. For example, Suna’s father cared for an elder woman who claimed to be 104. When she died, it came out that she was really 108, but she felt it was important to she maintain the fiction of being younger than she was.
And my dentist is the same age I am, almost to the day. But I sometimes have trouble taking him seriously. His hair is the color of shoe polish, and he has obviously had “work done” on his face—probably a combination of face lifts and Botox®. According to MedicalNewsToday, “Botox is a neurotoxin … used to reduce fine lines and wrinkles by paralyzing the underlying muscles.” Why anyone would poison themselves in a failed attempt to look younger is a mystery to me. And it undermines his credibility as a health advisor. But he is an excellent oral surgeon, and I keep reminding myself of that fact.
When we get older, we get older. I’m eternally grateful to my parents for instilling this sense of realism in me. I am the youngest of six. My mom was 36 when I was born. So, by the time I was in high school, they were looking seriously at retirement. Our kitchen table was lined with forged trivets conveying such messages as, “Don’t regret growing old. It is a privilege denied to many.”
Admittedly, I thought this aging advice was embarrassing at seventeen. But I still remember it in my sixties. Maybe that’s why I feel accepting of my own aging. Thanks, Mom and Dad.
Even without denying our aging, we can still take steps to prolong our health and independence. My dad worked hard his whole life. He always advised me, “Don’t let that rockin’ chair get you.” The Spring before he died at 92, he planted 40+ acres of corn. His last hospitalization came at harvest, and he was more concerned about the harvest and yield than his own treatment. He knew he was dying and accepted it. So, he focused on what mattered to him.
This grandma fought off a home invader by herself! Not all of us have the ability or the confidence to do that. Photo by ABC News
This morning, I learned of an inspirational woman on the news. At 82, Willie Murphy beat a home invader badly enough to put him in the hospital. When the cops showed up, they took selfies with her. She said, “He picked the wrong house to break into.” Amen, sister! “I think he was happy when he went in the ambulance.”
Not all of us are body builders, but we can all do something. My neighbor across the road walked three miles a day—every day—well into her eighties. When she succumbed to cancer, she went down fighting, but she went down with grace.
All of us face challenges every day. These basically fall into two categories: those that are within our sphere of control and those that are not. All I can hope is that I continue to work on thing things I can change and accept those I can’t. I hope I’m never too proud to accept help when I need it.
If you find you need help with some of the things you used to be able to do, Hearts, Homes, and Hands is here to provide that help.

Friday, November 29, 2019

inbox0

This is my goal. Twice a day, my inbox is empty...for at least 10 seconds.
This post originally appeared on the Hermit Haus Redevelopment website on 2019-11-22.
Are you a slave to your inbox?
Email is supposed to be a tool that helps us be more effective by communicating efficiently. But like many other productivity enhancements, email has become a time suck that actually degrades our effectiveness.
Half of the problem is that email is such an efficient way for other people to demand our attention and time, two of our most limited resources. The other half is that we allow them to do it. Today, I want to share a hack I discovered by accident a long time ago. Since then I’ve learned it’s a legit strategy and also has its own hashtag, #inbox0.
I actually clear my inbox twice a day with a simple five-step process. Most of you probably already know my process. For y’all, please take this post as a call to action or a review. I hope the rest of you will find something useful here.
1. Block your time.
I work my inbox twice a day in designated time blocks: once as part of my start of work ritual, and once as my end of work ritual. Each of these activities takes about 30 to 45 minutes. That’s it! An hour and a half a day on email, and I’m done.
Many of us feel a sense of urgency about working our inbox in real time. We may even feel a sense of false accomplishment for responding quickly, even if it’s only to delete spam. But each of those pointless distractions erodes our decision making ability and takes us away from the important things we need to be doing during the day. Studies show that just looking at an email, deciding it’s spam, and deleting it keeps us from doing something meaningful (by our own definitions) for at least 15 minutes. That’s how long it takes us to get back on track with what we were doing before the interruption.
I can hear the objections now. I’ve heard them all before. “I could never do that.” “My boss expect immediate response.” Even, “What if I miss something important?”
In reverse order: if it’s really important, the sender probably has other ways to contact you. But I’ve found almost all “urgent” emails can resolve themselves when ignored for a while.
Your boss is another matter. Just remind them that they would rather you focus on being productive than answering quickly. If your boss is too self-involved to put the needs of the company first, find another boss; your department is probably facing a re-org, whether or not your boss knows it. And if you haven’t noticed, there’s a labor shortage.
And finally: yes, you can. You just have to make yourself feel as good about accomplishing something important as deleting that spam or sending that cake recipe.
This is a fairly light spam load for me, probably because it contains only spam that came in after seven last night.
2. Filter Your Mail
Filtering your email is an automated process once you set up your own filters.
Filters from your email provider are useless. Their job is to make sure you get as much mail as possible. That’s how they measure their effectiveness. Some even make money by allowing some spam through. That’s why I set up my own filters. It takes time, but once it’s done, it’s done. Tweaking those filters only costs a few extra seconds for each tweak, and that’s out of my allotted email time budget.
I filter by junk senders, by specific subject text, and by specific text anywhere in the message. For example, I know that I don’t need to waste time on any message with the word “Viagra” anywhere in the text. It goes straight to the filter.
Filtering out junk senders is a little harder. Most legit stores send their spam from a different email account than their order statuses and invoices. I seldom do business with those that don’t more than once. “Fool me once…” and all that.
I also know that any email with “Just Listed” in the subject is a complete waste of time. Those are retail listings from agents who don’t know anything about what I want. True spam.
3. Review Your Filtered Email
I’ve had my filters in place so long that they only rarely filter out something I want to see. Sometimes, they do. Sometimes I am looking for something that I would normally consider spam. So, I spend a few minutes looking over the messages my filters strain out of the flow. I seldom spend more than five minutes on this step, and I’ve eliminated as many as 300 time wasters in one session. I think that’s a good ratio.
I have several entries from Amazon because they send out spam and mail I need from different addresses. Thank you for that small courtesy, Jeff.
4. Tweak Your Filters
I tweak my filters when I find a message that was caught or passed over in error. Because spammers are constantly tweaking their spam engines, I do the latter more often than not.
Spoofing email addresses makes it harder and easier to filter by sender. My client software isn’t robust enough (it was free) to recognize that mail domains with six subdomains are always spam, but can filter out anything with “.zzzz” where the “.com” should be.
Filtering by text is a highly personal endeavor, so I can’t really give you much, or any, useful advice here. But I did show one of my filters in a sidebar.
5. Pay Attention to What Matters
As I go through the rest of my email:
  • Answer what I need to and can
  • Set up to-do’s for what will take more time so that I can prioritize them
  • Delete a lot
  • Tweak my filters
Let me know if you found something you could use here. Maybe share some of your own filters in the comments. We’re all in this together against the spammers. And yes, Domino’s, you’re a spammer. I don’t need three emails a day suggesting your fairly expensive pizza would be a good deal if I just bought more of it.

Thursday, November 28, 2019

Thanksgiving 2019

Rollie, Suna, and Declan picked dead things for the table centerpiece. Omnia perit. Photo by Declan
Where’s Declan? Hint: he shows up twice. Photo by Suna
Easy lovin’, everyday’s Thanksgiving,
To count all my blessings,
I wouldn’t know where to start

— Freddie Hart (1926-2018)

I swear I’m not just writing so much about gratitude this week because it’s Thanksgiving in the US. That is a factor, but it’s not the only one. I am really feeling grateful for all that’s happening to me and that I’m accomplishing. But this post focuses specifically on Thanksgiving Day.
Using my new journaling system, I blocked off the whole day as Family Time. And that’s how I spent it. I watched my Cowboys lose again. I listened to someone cry about everyone treating her unfairly. We had friends and family over. And I finally went to bed having accomplished everything on my to-do list—specifically eating too much.
Someone on NPR today said that Thanksgiving is representative of America’s genius. You don’t need to have a specific ethnicity, creed, or religion to celebrate it. All you need is people and food. And to day we certainly had those in abundance. I really am grateful.
The dishes can wait for another day.

Monday, November 25, 2019

Grateful Monday

I am always grateful for these two cute dogs—even when they eat my shoes.
I got to give Milam Touch of Love a check to cover buying materials for the new dog run at the City of Cameron pound. Photo by Suna
Harvey and Suna both love to sing, and I enjoy listening to them.
A big black dog
Little too much gray around the muzzle
A big black dog
Why she ended up at the pound is a puzzle

—Emmylou Harris and Will Jennings

This week is another of those that prove the need to cherish the things that don’t go to plan as much as those that do. Everything you experience goes how you want it to, benefits you or your community in unexpected ways, or teaches you something that will make you a better person going forward.
Sarita snags … again.
The Sarita sale keeps hitting snag after snag. On Friday, the title company called for payoff so they could complete the settlement statement. The mortgage company “couldn’t find the loan.” By the time this snag was resolved, it was too late to finish the statement today. They can finish it on Monday, but FHA requires three days to review it. That would put closing on Thanksgiving Day. Looks like next Monday will be the earliest we can close.
The incompetence of title companies and mortgage companies is outside of my control. I’m doing better at accepting this reality. The Realtor® helping us with the sale thanked me for “being so patient.”
Better living through chemistry. Right? Not so much. I’m grateful to be learning to focus on what I can affect.
Cars are expensive!
Through a series of decisions, we now own three cars that need to be inspected, licensed, and maintained in November. This year, I failed to set up a reserve to handle this expense. So of course, my car needed thousands of dollars in repairs.
The timing is set and can’t be changed unless I trade vehicles. The lack of reserves is something I can correct, and I will.
I am grateful I had more than enough set back in the family’s general reserve account to cover the combined expense.
Tractor Supply rocks!
Suna and I went to the Herne Tractor Supply to buy things for the horses. While we were there, we got to talking with a really nice guy who turned out to be the store manager … at least, until January sometime.
He helped us find all the materials we need to build a big dog run for the City of Cameron’s pound. Now that we know where to find all the materials, Hearts, Homes, and Hands cut a check to Milam Touch of Love, the charity that supports pounds and animal rescues in Milam County, to cover the expense. Next week, we will go pick up all the materials, and my nephew Chris has promised to help put the run together over the Thanksgiving weekend.
I am so grateful we could help further the work of MToL and help take care of the lovely animals who end up in the Cameron pound.

Saturday, November 23, 2019

Do I Need a [New] Car?

Once you decide to buy a new vehicle, deciding which model is a delicate balance of needs, wants, and abilities.
This post originally appeared on the Hermit Haus Redevelopment website on 2019-11-16.
This topic has been on my mind a lot. It turns out that none of our vehicles are really suited to the new business, which has some fairly specific needs. Unfortunately, so do I. And those needs don’t have a lot of overlap. But rather than talk about the process of selecting a vehicle, let’s answer the question in the title of this post. Do you really need a new car? Maybe following my thought process can help you with a similar decision.
As I see it, there are three ways to answer that questions:
  • Yes, I need a new car.
  • Yes, I need a car, but a used one makes more sense.
  • No, I don’t need a car at all.
You notice I’m not getting dragged into the semantic nonsense about “pre-owned.” If someone else has owned a car, you can make it a true Daily Double that they used it.
Now, let’s look at those options.

The No Car Option

If you live in big enough city, you may not need a car at all. That doesn’t mean you won’t have any transportation costs. You’ll still have to pay for mass transit and for each ride you take in a taxi, Uber, of Lyft. But those costs are often lower than the cost of owning, and you only pay for what you use. I’m not going to say you pay for what you need, because you may not really need all those trips to Papadeaux.
While somewhere around 80% of the US population lives in metropolitan areas, that leaves 20% of us who do not. For those of us without access to any form of public transportation, the decision boils down to new or used.
For those of us who can’t do without a car, the decision boils down to new or used? That decision involves a huge cost/benefit analysis.

New Versus Used

Most of us want a new car even when a used car will suffice. We don’t really need a new one. But there are a few people who really do need a new car. So, let’s figure out if you really need one or just want one.
Costs
But first, let me tell you why it’s important. Most of us finance the purchase of a new car. That means we pay the price of the car, the additional cost of interest, and the opportunity costs of not using that money elsewhere. For almost everyone, a new car is the second leading source of Bad Debt, right after credit card debt.
Bad Debt is like the flu. It’s very prevalent. Surviving it can make you somewhat stronger. But it sucks (money out of your pocket) while you’re fighting it. For most of us, it doesn’t matter if you have a new car or a used one, but the costs of a new car are generally higher. For example, I bought a new XJ-L in 2013 just after the new models came out. It cost about $90,000. Today, it’s worth about $25,000. I still love that car, but was it worth $65,000 in depreciation over the past six years. That’s only the book value. I’m not going to add interest expenses on this car because I got really good financing where the interest rate was much less than the rate of inflation. (More about that later.)
But even so, for the equity I spent on the car, I could have bought two rent houses in Austin or three (maybe four) in Cameron. Those rentals would have paid for themselves and put money back into my pocket. That is the classic definition of an opportunity cost. Maybe a less expensive car or a used one would have sufficed.
A car may be Bad Debt, but for many of us, it’s a necessary one. It’s a debt that enables us to get out of the house for work, community, and food. I don’t personally know anyone who lives completely off the grid.
Interest Expense
Hearts, Homes, and Hands occasionally needs to move people, their belongings, and accommodations (like wheelchairs). To make sure we have enough room, Kathleen suggested a Yukon/Expedition class vehicle. So, I went shopping.
Sticker shock! These cars are a lot more expensive than you might think. But the slightly used ones were significantly lower priced than the new ones. Someone else had already realized at least some of the depreciation costs. But that didn’t mean the case was closed. Financing costs were so much higher on the used ones that the advertised monthly payment was higher than on a new one. In fact, the finance costs eliminated more than half of the difference in the total cost of the vehicle.
But the more depreciation someone else pays for, the less you do.
Maintenance
Maintenance costs can represent one of the true advantages of buying a new car. Some plans include all the maintenance for the first few years. There is also the perception, not always true, that new cars are more reliable than used ones. My dad used to refer to used cars as “buying someone else’s problems.”
The truth is today’s cars are usually very reliable. Pat Goss once said on MotorWeek, “The least-good cars today are still better than the best cars of twenty years ago.” He was talking about things like fit-and-finish and general reliability.
As a rule, I wouldn’t let maintenance costs factor into my decision for new or or lightly used. You should expect about the same maintenance cost regardless. Now if you buy a 20-year-old clunker, you’ll have to weight the maintenance costs against the monthly payments on a newer vehicle.
First impressions go a long way to establishing our credibility. Data shows it also helps to be young, healthy, white, and male. So why do I find the guy who shows up so much in my Google search for “credibility” kinda creepy?
Status/Credibility
We tend to think of status as a soft asset, one that makes us fell good but doesn’t pay the bills. An early mentor of mine said, “Status is when you look good and smell good, but you’re broke.” It took me a long time to overcome that mindset. I now prefer to think in terms of credibility.
For many of us—investors, real estate agents, and other professionals—credibility is our life blood. Without it, we don’t make deals. And we don’t make money without deals. It’s a sad fact that many people form their opinions about us based on what we drive. That’s why I think of that Jaguar as “instant credibility.” When I lived in Austin, I could see people’s opinions change for the better when they saw that car. In fact, Phil Grove tells the story of one of his friends being advised to buy a Bentley to attract more investment into his growing business.
But that credibility depends on where you live. In a small town like Cameron, my Jag often buys the “rich snob” reputation instead of the “successful businessman” one. That would hold true whether or not I bought a new or a used Jag. Trades often want to charge me more when I show up in the Jag than when I show up in my 2012 pickup. I’ve overheard them say, “He can afford it.”

What to Drive

I have no idea what, if anything, you should drive. That depends on where you live and what your goals are, and I’m having a hard enough time making up my own mind. I’ll let you know when I figure out what I’m going to do.

Friday, November 22, 2019

Gratitude (Introduction)

Cesar reportedly had a slave to remind him of his mortality. Stoicism suggest we approach every action, every decision as if it were our last. Photo source: The Daily Stoic Store
Of Fronto, [I have learned] how much envy and fraud and hypocrisy the state of a tyrannous king is subject unto, and how they who are commonly called ευπατρίδαι, i.e. nobly born, are in some sort incapable, or void of natural affection.

—Marcus Aurelius

I know you, my theoretical readers, have noticed I don’t blog religiously. A lot of my blogging is playing catch-up, copying what I have written for other publications into this solitary reliquary.
What I do, or try to do, religiously is journal. That’s right, on paper. I’ve found using electronic journaling leads to focusing on minutia at the expense of more important matters. I can jot down a bullet point if something is important enough and then review those jottings to keep my focus on what matters.
Part of my journaling practice involves meditating on what I am grateful for each day. I focus on two things first thing in the morning as part of my wake-up transition. I also leave room for one more to be discovered in the course of the day. That way I am reminded to always be on the lookout for something to be grateful for. As Marcus Aurelius said, “The quality of your life depends on the quality of your thoughts.”And I want the quality of my thoughts to guide me toward gratitude and tranquility...as well as financial success. Those three goals are not mutually exclusive. According to Maslow, they are linear and dependent.
I first read Aurelius either late in high school or early in college. I’ve kept a copy of his Meditations with me ever since. As a stoic, he believed that we should be grateful for everything that happens to us—good, bad, and indifferent.
We don’t know if a thing is good or bad when we experience it. We can only make that determination in hindsight, once we look back and see its effects. For example, a friend of mine developed sever stomach pains. It turned out she had an ulcer. But in diagnosing the cause of the pain, her doctors found out she had picked up a parasite on a South American vacation a couple of weeks before. The parasitic infestation was not advanced enough to cause symptoms, but the ulcer enabled them to find it before it started doing irreparable damage to her organs. Her ulcer, painful as it was, turned out to be a good thing.
Thinking about that, I realized I should publish my gratitude on this blog in the unlikely event that someone will find it interesting or useful. I will start with today’s three items and incorporate future and past items as I can.
Penny and Carlton often make us go,“Awwww.” Photo by: Suna

Today’s Gratitude

Suna’s company
Until she retires, we are maintaining separate residences. She lives in Austin half-time and at the ranch with me the other half. I really appreciate her company when she is here. I also appreciate her absence when she is gone because it reminds me how much I enjoy the time I do get to spend with her.
The Daily Stoic
This podcast reminds me that everyone faces trials and tribulations. These rough patches can be prepared for and are not so upsetting if you teach yourself to expect them. It taught me that I have always tried to live a semi-stoic lifestyle. Like Buddhism, stoicism is a practice, not an accomplishment.
Carlton and Penny
These two have been exceptionally sweet today. They made Suna and I both go, “Awwww” many times.

Tuesday, November 19, 2019

“Uhmm, yeah. I’m gonna need you to work on ... Saturday...”

Setting goals can be a spiritual experience that helps make sure everything you do supports your core personal values. Background photo by: NASA
This post originally appeared on the Hermit Haus Redevelopment website on 2019-11-12.
I know a lot of people who hate the idea of setting goals. This aversion can make it difficult, if not impossible, to accomplish anything useful—except by accident. I believe the reluctance to set goals stems from the way we were forced to set them and ignore them in favor of 10,000 trivial tasks in the corporate world—only to be punished for not accomplishing them in our annual review.
Yes, I’m talking to you, computer industry!
But I have come to view goal setting as a spiritual practice. It focuses your intent on what matters to you.
All of your goals should derive from your personal values or principles. But you must first identify what those are. Once you do, you can use them to determine whether the 10,000 things that beset you in the course of your daily life support your values or distract you from them. With well-defined goals, you can quickly determine which tasks are important, which you should do now, which you should put off, and which you should ignore. Many of the things that seem urgent in the moment resolve themselves if you ignore them, but others can still come back to bite you in the butt.

An Example

Scheduling your time appropriately probably supports every value you have, from fighting homelessness to spending more time with your family watching Power Ranger reruns for the hundredth time.

Values

Before you can set goals that support your personal values, you must first determine what those values are. Values are what really matters to you. I like to think about values as nouns—ambiguous ones at that. Some values might include:
  • Integrity
  • Frugality
  • Kindness
  • Social responsibility
  • Family and other relationships
  • Independence
  • Spirituality
SMART goals help you stay on track to support your values. This picture is one of my computer desktops. I am such a geek!

Attainable Goals

The goals you set to support your values should be attainable, something you can get done. I have talked about SMART goals elsewhere, as has my partner, Russell Mangum. So, I won’t distract you by repeating myself here. Not too much.
Let’s say you have an aspirational value of Social Responsibility, and you’ve decided you want to do something about homelessness. An attainable goal to support that value might be to help Habitat for Humanity build two affordable houses this year.

Milestones

Each of those two houses is a milestone you can check off once it’s built.

Steps and Tasks

Now it gets interesting. To meet that goal, you can contribute your time, your money, or both. Each of which involves layers of tasks and sub-tasks.
If you choose to donate $1,000 of your time, you have to:
  • Determine how much an hour of your time is worth.
  • Divide $1,000 by your hourly rate to determine how many hours (more or less) you need to contribute.
  • Coordinate your schedule with Habitat’s to know when you need to work.
  • Prioritize that time to keep it available so nothing prevents you from helping out.

Real World Intrusions

Understanding your values and the goals that supports them helps you decide what to do when an “urgent” task tries to invade your awareness. It enables you to focus your intent on what matters to you and even helps you identify and resolve conflicts between values. So, the next time your boss wants you to work on a Saturday you already have devoted to something else, you can think about it and decide what you want to do. Working that day may bring in more money that you could satisfy multiple values. You could donate the extra money (assuming overtime) to Habitat and provide for your family by keeping your boss happy. Or you could decide what you already had planned is more important to your values and happiness.
Each new request, each new item on your unending to do list is an opportunity to support your values or a distraction from them. It’s really all your choice.

Wednesday, November 13, 2019

Sponsorships Available

If you do business in the Cameron area, here's a chance to do good and spread the word about your business at the same time. Image by: Cameron Rotary Club
This post originally appeared on the Hermit Haus Redevelopment website on 2019-11-06 and on the Hearts, Homes, and Hands website on 2019-11-06.
Every year, the Cameron Rotary Club hosts a casino night fund raiser. Last year, the Rotary Club raised about $8-thousand for various charities and scholarships.
This fiscal year, Casino Night is 18 January 2020.

Why am I talking about this so early?

Now is the time for the corporate sponsors to sign up. Each year, Hermit Haus parent company Hermits’ Rest Enterprises, which is based in Cameron, sponsors the activity. Hermits’ Rest Enterprises will be joined by its sister company Heart, Homes, and Hands this year.
If you would like to sponsor this fun fundraiser, you can contact me or any other Cameron Rotarian.

What do companies get out of it?

Well, that depends on sponsorship level.
Level Donation Tickets Recognition
Individual $50 - Thank you!
Silver $150 1 Looping slide at the event Show advertisement
Gold $300 2 Table sponsorship Looping slide at the event Show advertisement

What do individuals ticket holders get?

Each $20 ticket (you can get those from me, too.) entitles you to:
  • A night of fun at the charity casino with slot machines and other games
  • Dinner
  • Drinks—and we are talking adult beverages here

For more information:

  • Here is the Rotary Club’s page. You can buy tickets online from the page.
  • And here is the Chamber of Commerce’s page on last year’s event. Note the significant drop in the cost of tickets.

Saturday, November 09, 2019

Save Money and Lose Weight

Would you pass up a pizza a month to pay off your mortgage seven years ahead of schedule? Photo by: Shutterstock
This post originally appeared on the Hermit Haus Redevelopment blog on 2019-10-09.
Most of us make at least one mortgage payment every month. It’s not one of our favorite things to do, but we do it so that we can continue to have a place to live. Those of us with rental properties probably make a mortgage payment every month for each property.
This week, I learned of a painless way to pay off your mortgage—one or many—early. According to Kristen Berman, co-founder of Irrational Labs (a behavioral economics company), one simple hack can help you pay off your mortgage up to eight years early. That’s right. One simple behavioral twist can save you thousands of dollars in interest on your mortgage…painlessly.
By paying $625 each month instead of $613.86, my friends could pay off this $70K mortgage a little more than three years early. By paying $650, they could pay it of 7.5 years early. This is the power of rounding up.

Would you like to know what it is?

Round your mortgage payment up to the nearest ten dollars and instruct the bank to apply the rest to principal. I can pretty much guarantee you won’t feel the difference in your cash flow, especially if you make your payments automatically. You make the change once, and it increases your net worth and saves you money going forward until the mortgage is paid off. Just by rounding up to the nearest ten dollars, you can pay your mortgage off at least eight months early. If you round up to the nearest $25 or $50, you can save even more.
This graphic shows the difference in rounding up to the nearest $25 and $50 on the $2000 payment in the body of this post. It works the same because $1200 of that $2000 payment goes to taxes and insurance, which never go away, only up.
Think about it. If your mortgage payment is (like one of mine) $2000.72, paying $2010.00 is a negligible difference—less than the cost of a bacon cheeseburger combo at Dairy Queen. Yet it could save thousands of dollars. You can save even more for the cost of dinner out once a month. I’m not saying you shouldn’t ever have a nice dinner out, just that you choose to do it being aware of the cost and benefits. Do it intentionally.
What I really like about this hack is that you already think this way. If I asked my friends what their mortgage payment was, they probably wouldn’t say, “$613.86,” like I did. They’d probably say something more reasonable, like “$615” or “$620.” Our brains are wired to round.
To me, this hack is better than setting up an automatic transfer to your savings account because you can’t sabotage yourself by spending your savings on—okay, necessities—later on. Even if you run onto hard times and have to stop paying extra somewhere down the road, the money you’ve already paid down continues to reduce the amount of interest you pay every month. Until the mortgage is paid off.
The sooner you implement this strategy, the more money it can save you!
Now seriously, when was the last time you heard of a financial tip that can save you money and help you lose weight at the same time?

Tuesday, November 05, 2019

Lungs

This post originally appeared on the Hearts, Homes, and Hands website on 2019-10-22.
As I’ve gotten older, I’ve noticed my lungs, which were never that healthy, have become a lot more sensitive to environmental factors: pollen, scented oils, dust, household cleaners, and so on. I started thinking about this topic because of something that happened the other night.
I was in the bathroom getting ready for bed, when I noticed an uninvited guest. It was some kind of insect. Since we have the house treated for pests regularly, I didn’t have a can of insecticide nearby. Or at all. So I grabbed the first thing at hand, a spray bottle of Scrubbing Bubbles that I keep in the shower.
It was like I turned off that bug’s switch. It didn’t kick or spasm. It just stopped, literally dead in its tracks.
I didn’t think a lot about this at the time because I’ve also killed insects with hair spray.
A couple of nights later, I killed a spider with the Scrubbing Bubbles, which really do a great job on the shower. It was really irritated and hid under a rug. I found it a couple of feet away the next morning.
For once I was glad that growing up near a chemical plant damaged my lungs enough that I instinctively hold my breath whenever I use a spray product. That’s also when I really started thinking.
What is it in this common cleaner that kills so effectively?
When I googled “scrubbing bubbles and lungs,” the top hit was a scary page called “10 of the Most Toxic Cleaning Supplies.” Turns out my favorite cleaner contains some really nasty chemicals (not really a big surprise), including one that is banned in the EU at concentrations of more than 3% for its effects on human lungs.
I’m going to continue using my spray-bottle helper. But I’m going to be even more careful about holding my breath.

Monday, October 28, 2019

How to Ru[i]n a Business

The post originally ran on the Hermit Haus blog because that is where we talk about running a business. It derives from efforts on behalf of our new non-medical, personal assistance company, Hearts Homes Hands.
This post originally appeared on the Hermit Haus Redevelopment website on 2019-09-28. A slightly edited version also appeared on the Hearts Homes Hands blog.
Over the past few weeks, our sister company, Hearts Homes Hands (Hearts, for short) has been trying to get some promotional items with the lovely helping hands logo embroidered on them. Since Hermit Haus has previously purchase such items from the big online vendors, we knew that the quality of the items they provide tends to leave a bit to be desired. So we decided to buy the shirts from Lands End and have a local company embroider them. This decision provides the quality we like while supporting local businesses, a win-win.
Based on our experience so far, here are a few rules to follow if you want to avoid doing business.
Don’t Have the Equipment
Our first call was to a local tailoring and alterations business. It was a long shot, but we like her, so we wanted to give them the business if we could. Unfortunately, they don’t have the right sewing machine for the embroidery work. That’s not really surprising, since it isn’t their core business. It’s not a big deal, but it does keep them from expanding.
They did refer us to another local business that does. They just didn’t tell us that’s what they were doing.
Don’t Follow Through on Commitments
The owner of the second business actually did have the equipment and called us at 9:00 o’clock on a Saturday night (impressing us with their dedication) to say they would call on Monday to talk about the details. They didn’t. We did get an email Monday night saying they would be in touch with us on Tuesday. They weren’t. Nor did they answer when we called back the original number.
Don’t Provide Contact Information
We then set about looking for another local business to do the work for us. We found a Facebook page for one with no phone number and no email listed. See the previous “rule” and guess what happened to our FaBoo messages. How are you going to get new business if you make it impossible for your customers to contact you? You don’t have to answer the phone yourself, but somebody needs to.
Don’t Have a Physical Location
Now you may think that brick and mortar operations are passé. It so, why did Amazon buy Whole Foods? Why does Google have so many offices throughout the country for Google Fiber and their other marketing ventures. No, if you’re going to have to interact with your customers—especially if you rely on local customers—you need a place to do it.
The result of all this is the Hearts leadership team is going to our first industry event without clothing to identify us to potential customers and referral sources. Sigh. Anybody have a Sharpie?

Thursday, October 24, 2019

Aging Well

Ursula K Le Guin started blogging—mainly about aging—at 81. The blog was excerpted into No Time To Spare: Thinking about what matters. Photo by: K Kendall on flickr. This file is licensed under the Creative Commons Attribution 2.0 Generic license.
This file originally appeared on the Hearts Homes Hands aging blog on 2019-09-24
While we will talk about the business of running Hearts, Homes, Hands and providing in-home, non-medical elder care once we start accepting clients, that’s not the only purpose of [the company] blog. We want to share things we learn about the aging process and how to help live your life to the fullest as you age. And unlike other businesses, we hope to help you never become one of our clients.
So here is a look at some other blogs:
10 Bloggers Who Make Aging A Whole Lot Easier
As the title says, Huffpo lists 10 blogs, mainly run by journalists, that deal with aging well. One of them might suit your needs.
The Age-Well Project
Annabel Streets and Susan Saunders literally wrote the book on The Age Well Project. Their blog discusses their ongoing journey into elderhood.
Ursula K. Le Guin
Le Guin, was one of my favorite authors growing up. Unfortunately, she died last year, as we all eventually must. She started blogging at 81, and her writings continue to inspire me. I often quote he response to the misguided saying, “You’re only as old as you feel.” She responded, “If I’m ninety and believe I’m forty-five, I’m headed for a very bad time trying to get out of the bathtub.”

Monday, October 21, 2019

Just Be Careful

A Ponzi scheme uses the investments of later participants to fake profits to earlier ones. Sooner or later, all Ponzi schemes collapse from their inability to generate enough new investment to pay older investors.
This post originally appeared on the Hermit Haus Redevelopment website on 2019-09-23.
There’s been a cautionary tale running around the news this week. It makes me think of something the Oracle of Omaha once said. “You cannot build a good career with bad people.” This statement has been interpreted as “You can’t make a good deal with bad people.”
I don’t know enough about Clayton Morris to make a value judgement on his character, although his career as an entertainer on Faux News does not earn him any brownie points in my book.
Morris left Faux News to form a turnkey investment company that buys, renovates, and manages rental properties for investors. There are a number of companies that do this job well, but you are always taking a big risk when you invest in a property you may never see.
I’ve linked to a short podcast that discusses the story. You can read more details in this NY Times story, which describes the numerous lawsuits against Morris—one in federal court.
Here’s the audio.
A couple of points:
  • Real Wealth Network, which produced the podcast, may compete with Morris in some markets. I can’t tell because Morris Invest does not list the markets in which he is active. Real Wealth does.
  • Being sued does not necessarily mean you have done anything wrong.
  • But leaving the country in the midst of a law suite does not inspire confidence.
Envato Image When you’re investing, failure to distinguish between fake data and facts can cost you big time. Celebrity is not the same thing as legitimate credentials. Photo Source: kenishirotie Licensed through Envato

Protecting Yourself

So, how do you know if you can trust the people you’re investing with. Ultimately, that’s something you can never be sure of, but there are a few things you can do.
Due Diligence
Due diligence is a legal term that simply means being careful. Before you invest, find out everything you can about the people you’re thinking about investing with. Just be careful.
Their Experience
Never risk your money with inexperienced people. Have they been in business long enough to establish a track record? Look for previous projects they have done. Were those projects completed on budget and done well?
The Investor Experience
What have other people experienced when investing with them? Talk to other people who have invested with them—anyone you can find, not just the ones they point you to. Have they paid off on time? Have they communicated well with their investors?
Character
This is the hardest part. Are they good people? I’m not asking if you like them. Con artists are very likable, and “superficial charm” is a trait of most psychopaths.
Their character trumps their experience. Are they good people? Do they contribute to society? Is helping others at the core of their mission? Do others trust them?
But the bottom line is that investing is risky. If you invest carefully, you can expect to make money more often than you lose it. If don’t learn everything you can about your investments, you’re not investing; you’re gambling.
Whether you’re investing or gambling, some advice my older brother a “professional gambler” once gave me still holds true. He said, “Don’t put any money on the table you wouldn’t set fire to and walk away from.” For investing, that boils down to “Don’t invest your rent and grocery money.”